tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65156458682566600502024-03-23T06:13:32.476-04:00My Life With Bipolar Disorder And My Passionate Journey Towards Kissing Stigma Goodbye!!Mental Illness does not define someone! It's nothing more than a diagnosis. Bipolar Disorder is an illness I have; it in no way defines who I am! There are so many things in my life that define me; Bipolar is not one of them! There is a huge stigma that society attaches to mental illness. For someone to feel ashamed of an illness they have due to society’s misconceptions is in no way acceptable. Read about my own personal experiences with Bipolar Disorder and join me in KISSING STIGMA GOODBYE!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger275125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-71925219027702087752021-12-05T14:48:00.000-05:002021-12-05T14:48:28.747-05:00<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9LyFN5er-O1AwU4yP9ITzBPNKMnex5RYDbguSu4fgMaoMCn1nmy6uewztbI8fPyaKkJsJhIlVyEkrRv4wZ_plhQH4ELhb7TjDfyY3OwbDF4-6Hn9PKyc6hoHfO51JWHOW2k_ljRx6BdXj/s828/867BC44F-18AC-44BC-A0E4-04D9A6E35D33.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="801" data-original-width="828" height="310" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9LyFN5er-O1AwU4yP9ITzBPNKMnex5RYDbguSu4fgMaoMCn1nmy6uewztbI8fPyaKkJsJhIlVyEkrRv4wZ_plhQH4ELhb7TjDfyY3OwbDF4-6Hn9PKyc6hoHfO51JWHOW2k_ljRx6BdXj/s320/867BC44F-18AC-44BC-A0E4-04D9A6E35D33.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-40722619076527468362021-11-30T03:13:00.001-05:002021-11-30T03:13:30.747-05:00<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivQBCpC5K9dCpiKsrXGRhddsRkdfKvE59_cw2_kFlBfP-uXSeYnrsrnFa64WdQ7qA7y64aRrvEkg5kSjo-fvZdnG9rohVsTFIHZxo2R-DnySpXXFxNBVyg4Z_PEJr3W16eNFvGE_6ZAg1j/s1024/IMG-9690.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1024" data-original-width="768" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivQBCpC5K9dCpiKsrXGRhddsRkdfKvE59_cw2_kFlBfP-uXSeYnrsrnFa64WdQ7qA7y64aRrvEkg5kSjo-fvZdnG9rohVsTFIHZxo2R-DnySpXXFxNBVyg4Z_PEJr3W16eNFvGE_6ZAg1j/s320/IMG-9690.JPG" width="240" /></a></div><br /> <p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-44880955582936090472021-11-28T12:49:00.001-05:002021-11-28T12:49:20.111-05:00<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUt3Nfkaex6f1IlDvszAnoqlOmctlQjyof-Z3EAfuqwCTwSCT0W9oAJpAqxbzSHeDrAsOnGdx-EMI5JfNeEttPdiJNrnlw9btSmSRjvcwh7co-HpZqvZKoikt6GwgMRoc8nrJz876boZ9j/s828/unnamed+%25282%2529.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="809" data-original-width="828" height="313" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUt3Nfkaex6f1IlDvszAnoqlOmctlQjyof-Z3EAfuqwCTwSCT0W9oAJpAqxbzSHeDrAsOnGdx-EMI5JfNeEttPdiJNrnlw9btSmSRjvcwh7co-HpZqvZKoikt6GwgMRoc8nrJz876boZ9j/s320/unnamed+%25282%2529.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /> <p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-1795827769773850492021-11-23T15:44:00.002-05:002021-11-23T15:44:46.613-05:00<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTgwiQN7PI94pY4Wjn5HIXM3695v1U08HdUzpK4G1SOr0ZWyza5c-3VLZg8il7brAChdlyrnE8hGKomI8pFzN_WZmVZNtBl_N1VMiXBUlhhFS-xK5qKnBJopFIpc6_QaTgciwRMppK0bhE/s940/5b9e99d93c000066000a9d0a.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="788" data-original-width="940" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTgwiQN7PI94pY4Wjn5HIXM3695v1U08HdUzpK4G1SOr0ZWyza5c-3VLZg8il7brAChdlyrnE8hGKomI8pFzN_WZmVZNtBl_N1VMiXBUlhhFS-xK5qKnBJopFIpc6_QaTgciwRMppK0bhE/s320/5b9e99d93c000066000a9d0a.webp" width="320" /></a></div><br /> <p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-35358206011938005702021-11-19T15:42:00.001-05:002021-11-19T15:42:50.846-05:00<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoftVWX7CMDP-mGImPjxRVtj4MU4ORPQnErzx5A8Wu_9QfkSxnN1c-tkn_AVRMSy3gCX-AYHTCUrhSlK9fJygfcD9vgyijuxTaOqjIoxRxXrOhpbXu11QSJO9DA8PKZw0aZp7Tc66-utYP/s835/unnamed.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="835" data-original-width="578" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoftVWX7CMDP-mGImPjxRVtj4MU4ORPQnErzx5A8Wu_9QfkSxnN1c-tkn_AVRMSy3gCX-AYHTCUrhSlK9fJygfcD9vgyijuxTaOqjIoxRxXrOhpbXu11QSJO9DA8PKZw0aZp7Tc66-utYP/s320/unnamed.jpg" width="222" /></a></div><br /><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-56923329371948423622021-11-18T14:48:00.001-05:002021-11-18T14:48:20.461-05:00The Loss of my Grandparents<p> <span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">2020 and 2021 haven’t been the best years for many individuals. I personally lost both my grandparents less than 4 months apart. My grandfather passed away in October 2020 of a sudden heart attack. My grandmother passed away in February 2021 from pancreatic cancer. I was incredibly close to my grandparents and these losses crushed me, especially being so close together.</span></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-c7ca67d3-7fff-a967-51e1-6be7826d1879"><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">My grandfather was my biggest fan and was so proud of all I have accomplished. He made sure everyone knew how proud he was of me and never stopped bragging about me. He participated in the NAMI walk with me annually. This was so special for me. I miss him and love him dearly.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">My grandmother was not as vocal about it but she was also very proud of me. She was the matriarch of our family and is missed dearly. She was the epitome of strength to the very end. She put her family first and we all loved her so much.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">I am crying as I type this because I miss them so much. They were such a huge part of my life and it still feels surreal that they’re gone. They lived long and full lives and I can take solace in that.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">They are both missed so very much by so many people. Due to COVID-19 we couldn’t have the large funerals for them that they would have wanted. They touched the lives of so many and we wish we could have included everyone who they touched but we were only allowed a few people on top of our family. </span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">This is the biggest loss I’ve ever experienced and my heart still hurts. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of them. They were the best grandparents a girl could ask for. My love for them will never die.</span></p><div><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><br /></span></div></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-38827754511050241622021-11-15T14:02:00.001-05:002021-11-15T14:02:33.551-05:00Hello Strangers<p> Hello strangers, It has been a long time since I have
written on this blog. You could say I’ve had years of writer’s block. However,
I’m back at it and fighting this ongoing writer’s block. My goal is to post once
a week in some capacity.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Since I’ve last written, I had 2 back-to-back
hospitalizations in 2016 for depression and suicidal ideation. I was
hospitalized at Howard County General Hospital, and they happen to have a
fantastic psychiatric unit. Since 2016, I’ve been mostly stable. I had one
episode of hypomania, but I caught it in time and my psychiatrist and I switched
my medication quickly from Seroquel to Zyprexa and all was good after that switch.
Since then I’ve been doing great. I have the occasional anxiety and panic
attack but overall I am doing better than I can ever remember. Currently I am
taking Effexor, Zyprexa, and Lamictal, a combination that is working great for
me. It’s been close to six years since my last hospitalization and I’m in awe
that I’ve gone so long without a hospitalization. Here’s to hoping for many
more years without a hospitalization.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I currently have a job that I love working with the homeless
and formerly homeless population in Montgomery County, MD. It’s very rewarding
work and I love my clients. I also work for an amazing organization which makes
all the difference in the world.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I’ve missed writing. It has helped me and helped others. I’ve
had a crappy computer for a few years making writing hard but I’m working on
that. Writing is my art and I plan to keep up with it going forward.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You’ll be hearing more from me soon, I promise you </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGp_z8yWz9TKqfqbh8GWYZugfVPmMUie8tsEbfleGjK6Vx3_k8jVGSStmzyRIQ3hV2uo4w6QfPLl42UnhQxgjOQKTUTT6r9dwSiXGJSqX4tqJNFQvjeBgCHFhSokEIk7J9CuMcJ7KYmNo1/s404/approved-card-35.3-stigma.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="404" data-original-width="404" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGp_z8yWz9TKqfqbh8GWYZugfVPmMUie8tsEbfleGjK6Vx3_k8jVGSStmzyRIQ3hV2uo4w6QfPLl42UnhQxgjOQKTUTT6r9dwSiXGJSqX4tqJNFQvjeBgCHFhSokEIk7J9CuMcJ7KYmNo1/s320/approved-card-35.3-stigma.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />that.<o:p></o:p><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-58384545389987883152015-08-17T10:26:00.004-04:002021-11-30T03:17:01.973-05:00There's Nothing Selfish About Suicide<div class="text_exposed_root text_exposed" id="id_55d1ee774f86b4584626960">
I cam across this post last night and it brought tears to my eyes to read it. If you only read one thing today, please make it this link. <br />
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Before you call suicide selfish, stop for a minute and be grateful you have never felt the kind of pain that makes ending your life seem like the only option left. I've been hospitalized multiple times after a suicide attempt or suicidal ideation and to say I didn't think about what it would do to my loved ones would be one of the most hurtful things someone could say to me. All I did wa<span class="text_exposed_show">s think about those that I love and that love and care about me. Not a moment passed during my darkest times that I didn't think about what it would do to my family and my friends if I were gone but there was so much pain that I didn't feel like I had another option. Unless you have felt that pain, you will never understand the depths of despair someone goes through at that point. Please don't ever use the word selfish when describing suicide and please don't judge something you are very lucky to not understand. </span><br />
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Also, always remember suicide is not a dirty word! Talk about it, bring awareness, let people know they can talk to you, make yourself present to those who are suffering (even if they push you away because that's when they need you the most). Kindness can save a life, even kindness to a stranger!</div>
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<strong>Thanks for reading! </strong></div>
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<strong>Until next time....</strong></div>
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<strong>Kissing Stigma Goodbye</strong></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-31266241287281372602015-05-26T09:28:00.000-04:002015-09-17T09:52:08.371-04:00Cruel and Unusual – It’s Time to End an American Tragedy<span style="font-family: inherit;">This article (link found below) makes me so incredibly mad and sad. My heart hurts for the folks with severe mental illness who are thrown in jails and hospitals for crimes they committed while sick and then never provided the treatment they need to get better. Thank you to NAMI for this expose on jails and prisons. Maybe state hospitals will be up next! We need to stop ignoring these terrible conditions and treatments. We would never treat someone with a physical illness in this way and it is not acceptable to treat someone with a psychiatric illness this way either. People with a mental illness are still people with feelings and deserve proper treatment for their ailments... Physical and psychological.</span><br />
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Rock bottom for me came last summer when I overdosed on Klonopin and Lithium with the hopes of ending my life. What followed that was life changing. Not the stay in the hospital, but the thoughts and feelings that invoked in the weeks and months to follow. The analysis of my outlook on life, on happiness, on family, on friendship, on relationships... all of that was life changing. All of that came from hitting rock bottom and coming out of it a stronger and better person.<br />
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The people who support you and love you through the times when you feel and act so unlovable are the ones that will never leave your side no matter what. Thank you to everyone who was there for me when I hit my rock bottom last year. Thank you to everyone who saw me through it. Thank you to everyone who loves me no less now even though they saw me and cared for me when I was so hard to love. I don't know where I would be without all of you. I especially don't know where I would be without my mom and dad. They have never lost hope in me and have supported me through every heartache and every bit of my illness. Words could never begin to explain the love and appreciation I have for my parents and everyone else who has loved me through the worst.<br />
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I am so proud of myself for the strength and growth that has come from last year but I also know I couldn't have done it alone!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-34649790037619371062015-05-02T20:49:00.002-04:002023-02-21T08:38:22.655-05:00Every Rose Has Its Thorn<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;">Today has been one hell of a day. A day of sadness; a day of tears. Today is one of those days where all I wanted from the start was to go back to sleep and start the day over, in a better mood, in a happier place, with the depression lifted. I actually took a nap today, and those that know me well, know that naps mean I’m avoiding my feelings. Rarely do naps actually mean I’m tired. Things have been going so well for a while, so of course, old man Bipolar had to throw me a curve ball and hit me with some depression today. I can only hope and wish tomorrow is a better day.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;">Today is one of those days where I feel so alone in this struggle. I have to remind myself that I am not alone. I try so hard to think of those that care about me and those that love me. I think of all the incredible love and support I felt last year when I was suicidal and that’s what keeps me going when I’m down. I know there are people who need me and I know how many people were hurting last year when I was sick. Most days I know this and don’t have to remind myself. Most days are good, most days I smile and laugh like everyone else. Today is not one of those days. Today is a day that I have to remind myself why I’m still here; why I stopped and asked for help last July. Today, I have to remind myself of all the people who love and need me and I have to remind myself of what I have accomplished and why I should be proud of myself. I have to remind myself of the good days to get through the bad days.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;">It has been just over 15 years since I was diagnosed with this illness and it never really gets any easier to deal with the depression when it hits. The unexplained tears are the worst for me. They are not like a good cry that makes you feel better; I’ve had plenty of those. The unexplained tears just make me feel worse and make me wonder what’s wrong with me. I know I have come a long way since last year because I am able to sit down and write how I am feeling and I was able to express to my mom how I am feeling. A year ago, I would have kept it all inside of me. I hope that today is an anomaly and tomorrow I’m back to doing well like I have been for so long.</span><br />
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I have so much love and appreciation for my family and friends who love me through everything, even on the days when I can be hard to love. I wouldn’t be where I am in life without the love and support of those around me and I could never even begin to put into words how much I appreciate that support.</div>
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Here’s to hoping for a better day tomorrow and the next day! Here’s to hoping I never forget why I’ve held on every time I thought I couldn’t go on. And, here’s to all of you that have felt you couldn’t go on at some point. I have felt your pain! Always know, there is someone who needs you; someone whose life would never be the same without you in it!</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-75896500219751280872015-03-12T22:05:00.000-04:002015-03-12T22:06:31.355-04:00Please HELP! Sign the petition to restore funding to mental health!!!$23 million has been cut from the mental health budget since January! Please help by signing this petition to ask Governor Hogan to restore some of the funding that has been cut. Please join "Keep the Door Open MD" by signing this petition before we lose much needed mental health programs!
Thank you dearly, from the bottom of my heart!<br />
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">5 months ago, I was a patient in the psychiatric unit at Saint Joseph's Medical Center recovering from a suicide attempt; a lithium overdose that landed me in the medical unit for a few days followed by the psychiatric unit. 5 months ago, I wanted to die. I saw no other way out than taking my own life. I took 70+, 300 mg Lithium capsules. A dosage for me at that time was 4 capsules a day. My lithium level tested at nearly 3 times the toxic level when I arrived at the E.R. on the afternoon of July 31, 2014. I survived for a reason unknown to me. I stopped taking the lithium capsules and texted my supervisor who drove me to the hospital. I don’t know for sure what made me stop and ask for help. Maybe it was all of the calls and texts I was receiving from people saying they care. I may not have responded to any of them but they likely played a large role in why I decided to give life another shot. At that time, I couldn’t see life ever being worthwhile. Dying seemed like the best and the only option. I hated myself and I hated the world. I couldn’t imagine ever being happy. I couldn’t even imagine ever feeling any better than totally miserable and hopeless.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Tonight, 5 months later, I look around my apartment, as I sit on the couch in the living room, watching reruns of New Girl. Caesar is snoring on the couch next to me. Diesel is in the Ikea Poang chair, taking a cat nap. Tonight, I feel lucky. Tonight, I feel grateful. Tonight, I am happy I am alive and that something stopped me from continuing to take that lithium overdose. Tonight, I am grateful to have had friends and family that insisted on making sure I knew they cared while I was at my worst. Tonight, I am grateful for having a supervisor who drove to my house, picked me up, and took me to the hospital. I am incredibly happy with where I am in life right now. </span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-78860885159432112032014-06-02T15:27:00.002-04:002014-06-11T09:13:58.144-04:00NAMI WalkHere is a picture of me and my grandfather at the NAMI Walk at the Baltimore Inner Harbor this past Saturday. We had a good time. I really enjoy being around such a large group of people who are all there to stand up for mental health awareness and fight stigma. It is incredibly inspiring to take part in the NAMI Walk every year.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-50404850728419167392014-05-14T21:23:00.000-04:002014-05-14T21:23:02.552-04:00The $20 Bill<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.0" style="line-height: 15.359999656677246px;"><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.0.$end:0:$2:0">The $20 Bill</span></span><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3" style="line-height: 15.359999656677246px;"><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0"><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$1:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$3:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$4:0">A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill.</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$5:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$7:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$8:0">In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up.</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$9:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$11:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$12:0">He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up. He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air.</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$13:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$15:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$16:0">"Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$17:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$19:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$20:0">"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20."</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$21:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$23:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$24:0">"Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless.</span><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$25:0" /><br data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$27:0" /><span data-reactid=".75.1:3:1:$comment713937158672495_714419935290884:0.0.$right.0.$left.0.0.0:$comment-body.0.3.0.$end:0:$28:0">Author Unknown</span></span></span></span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-44117285040624859342014-05-09T22:06:00.002-04:002023-02-21T08:43:56.466-05:00Mental Illness Is RealBipolar is real, Depression is real, Schizophrenia is real, Mental Illness is real! It's such a shame that those of us living with a mental illness are made to feel as if our illness isn't real, as if it doesn't matter. There are no casseroles for the family when someone is struggling with a mental illness, so many less people say "let me know if there's anything you need" than would if it were to someone with a physical illness, many people just turn a blind eye, turn the other way as if nothing is happening, as if we're not sick and we don't need help. The problem with that is, we ARE sick and we DO need help. We need love and we need support in the same way someone with cancer needs love and support. Mental illness is seen as the invisible illness which makes those of us suffering with mental illness feel like the invisible people.<br />
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Would you feel cared about by someone who didn't show you care and compassion while you were undergoing chemo therapy? Would you feel loved by someone who turned their back on you while you were in the hospital after having a stroke? Would you feel like you mattered to someone who didn't take the time to recognize and acknowledge the pain you experience as a result of your MS?<br />
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Why should those of us living with a mental illness feel cared about by people who don't show us care and compassion when we most need it? Why should we feel loved by people who turn their backs when we're sick and crying out for help? Why should we feel like we matter to those who don't take the time to recognize and acknowledge, even if they can't understand, the pain and daily struggle we deal with as a result of our illness? Why is our invisible illness less important than the physical, visible illnesses of others? Why are we so often forced to suffer alone or with less support than those dealing with a physical illness?<br />
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If you're someone who does this to a friend or family, please realize how much you're hurting them. If you're someone that has seen other people do this to a friend or family member, please stand up for them. If you have a mental illness and are experiencing this or have experienced this like I have, I'm sorry. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. It sucks. It hurts. It's the last thing we need when we're already drowning in our mental illness. Compassion is a beautiful thing, compassion for all.<br />
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There is nothing fake about what we experience in our head every day. I know it can't be seen, but it's there and at times it can be complete misery. Mental illness can be deadly. In fact, suicides encompass a large number of deaths in the United States. Imagine if your brain was working against you so much that death seemed like the best option, the only option, the only way out. That is not fake, that is real, incredibly real. Count yourself as being lucky if you've never felt that way but don't discount the pain and suffering of the person that has felt that way. There is nothing fun about mental illness. It has destroyed main lives because it is real and it is unforgiving. Just because you can't see it in an x-ray, in a blood test, as a rash on my arm, or a fever on the thermometer doesn't make it any less real than cancer or diabetes or other physical illnesses.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-80394733270264278072014-04-21T20:24:00.001-04:002015-04-27T12:47:05.833-04:00This is the newest member of my family, Diesel<div dir="ltr">
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-55678746106975491362014-03-31T22:25:00.003-04:002015-09-17T09:54:30.410-04:00World Bipolar Day<span style="font-family: inherit;">Yesterday was World Bipolar Day. This is a picture I made up in the efforts of fighting stigma for the International Bipolar Foundation to post on their Facebook page. They are the ones who sponsored World Bipolar Day.</span><br />
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compassionate --I am a good aunt --I am smart. --I am funny --I share my story
so others can benefit. – I am beautiful—I am strong-- I am a good writer—I am
sensitive—I put the ones I love first—I have overcome all obstacles--I am a
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I previously wrote about my recent visit to the Psychiatric Unit of
the hospital. I wrote two posts. The first about what led me to go the hospital
(<a href="http://nodifferentthanyou.blogspot.com/2014/01/my-recent-hospitalization-part-1.html" target="_blank">My Recent Hospitalization (Part 1)</a>). The second about the ER visit at Saint Joseph’s Medical Center
(SJMC) prior to my psychiatric hospitalization (<a href="http://nodifferentthanyou.blogspot.com/2014/01/my-recent-hospitalization-part-2.html" target="_blank">My Recent Hospitalization (Part 2)</a>). Now about my experience on <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">One West</i>
(the psychiatric unit at SJMC).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I want to start off by saying it was an overwhelmingly positive experience from beginning
to end. I did a lot of journaling about my experiences each day I was there.
The Nurses were just incredible and caring, the Psychiatrists were informed and
detail oriented, the unit atmosphere was welcoming, the Social Worker was kind
and compassionate, the Occupational Therapists were incredible. Overall, it was
a kind, caring, and compassionate atmosphere. Exactly the way it should be for
someone dealing with a psychiatric issue. I am so grateful to have gotten a bed
on this incredible unit.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I arrived on the unit late Friday night (12/20/13). It was
sometime after 11pm. I did my intake with a fantastic nurse named David, who
turned out to be my nurse on a number of shifts throughout my stay. I was then
given my medication and I passed out for the night pretty quickly. It had been
a tiring day. I was woken up very early for a blood draw and for my vitals.
Vitals were done bright and early every morning! I had my blood drawn a few
times over the course of my stay.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
first thing I did after the blood draw and vitals that first morning was call
my parents then went right back to bed. It was bright and early and I wanted to
catch them before they went to the grocery store. I had found out the night
before that I was allowed to have outside snacks brought in and I could keep
them in my room. I was very excited about that! I wasn’t expecting that as that
was not the case when I was at Sheppard Pratt 9 years ago. I made sure to jump
on this and let my parents know to bring me snacks during visiting hours that
day. They brought me tons of snacks and some Gatorade! I asked for Gatorade
because the bottles had to be plastic and no cans were allowed. I don’t really
care for bottled soda so Gatorade it was.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I was quite glad to learn that the weekend schedule only
consisted of 1 less group than the weekday schedule and that I would see a
Psychiatrist every day I was there, weekends included. This gave me more
confidence about what the quality of my stay would be. Part way through the
first group of the day on Saturday morning, I met with Dr. Haerian who had
treated me in his private practice when I was a teenager. I hadn’t remembered
too much about him except that I had a hard time understanding his accent when
I was younger (much better now). He did however remember me, many years later.
After taking a brief history and discussing my symptoms he decided to take me
off of Seroquel and switch me onto Latuda. Latuda is a new medication, approved for
treating depression in individuals with Bipolar Disorder who are unable to take
anti-depressants like myself. The reason I can’t take anti-depressants is
because they kick me into full-blown mania! Aaaahhh! I expressed to Dr. Haerian
my desire to find a new Psychiatrist prior to my discharge. I explained
to him that I did not feel confident in my current doctor and Dr. Haerian agreed
the hospital would assist with this. The following day when I met with him he
offered to be my outpatient Psychiatrist at his private practice. I was so
grateful for this offer and definitely took him up on it. Throughout my time in
the hospital he monitored my lithium level, started me on and increased my
Latuda, and decreased my Seroquel. Slowly the depression began to dissipate. I
was extremely impressed with him and am so happy to have him as my new doctor. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">One West</i> is an all
voluntary unit. No one is placed there on an involuntary hold; every patient on the unit has voluntarily
signed themselves in. I’m not sure if that is the reason that it didn’t feel as
strict as Sheppard Pratt or if it is just run better with better staff. For one, the warmth
that was exuded by the nurses on One West far surpassed any warmth I felt at
Sheppard Pratt. I honestly don’t recall feeling truly cared about at Sheppard
Pratt. On One West, every nurse was there because they wanted to be there not
just because it was a job. They were there because they care about the patients.
I felt welcomed on the unit as soon as I arrived. The other patients were all
very caring and welcoming as well. I won’t speak in detail about them for their
own privacy but I had many heartwarming conversations with other patients.
Everyone really seemed to care about the well being of each oter.
There were a number of patients there for Electro Convulsive Therapy (ECT);
some that had been there for as long as a month. They had seen many other
patients come and go but despite their long stays they seemed to maintain
positivity as ECT helped them feel “normal” again. I learned during my stay
that many individuals are sent to One West for ECT because SJMC performs ECT on
their grounds. (I will write a blog in the near future about ECT because I know
not everyone is familiar with it)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">While I was there I spent my days in groups, writing, doing
word searches, doing puzzles, chatting with the other patients, and counting
down the hours and minutes and seconds until VISITING HOURS! On a psychiatric
unit visiting hours are much stricter than on a medical hospital unit. Visiting
hours on the weekends and holidays were from 3pm-5pm and 6:30pm-8:30pm. On
weekdays visiting hours were only from 6:30pm-8:30pm. You were only allowed 3 visitors
at a time and no one under 14 was allowed to visit without permission from your
doctor and. Of course, that wasn’t a problem for me
since I don’t have any children but a few people on the unit weren’t able to
see their young children often.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m sure
that must have been hard on them but it is surely not an ideal place for
children. Everyone seemed able to see their children for Christmas Eve and
Christmas. That was nice to see. I didn’t have too many visitors but I had visitors
everyday, mostly my parents. The second day I was there, I had mentioned to my
parents that a word search book would be nice to have to help take up some of
the time I wasn’t in groups. My dad left, went to the gift shop and returned
with two activity books. They really did help pass the time. My sister brought
me a Greek salad on Christmas Eve and it was the best Greek salad of my life. I
was so pleased to be eating that for dinner, instead of the tray of hospital
food I had been used to eating. However, the food was not awful there and I was
able to choose my meals, which was a relief.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The groups took up a good bit of my time. There were 3
groups on the weekends and holidays. One of the groups was an hour and a half
and the other two were an hour. On the weekdays there were 4 one hour-long
groups. The groups were on various topics. Every morning there was Occupational
Therapy Task Group. That was my favorite because it was very hands on. There
were a variety of tasks to choose from. I always chose some sort of arts and
crafts activity. I joked that I felt like a 5 year old showing my parents my art work. All jokes aside, arts and crafts are very therapeutic. The other groups were typically more thought provoking. They had
more to do with thoughts, feelings, behaviors, mental illness, and so on.
Groups were optional but I always attended them. I wanted to get as much out of
my stay as possible. Sometimes I would lie down to rest in between groups but
for the most part I stayed up from breakfast on. I slept really well in the
hospital. I’m not sure what I have to owe that to but I am surely not
complaining. I expected to sleep terribly so it was a pleasant surprise. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Overall I would say this was an incredibly successful
hospital stay. I would give Saint Joseph’s Medical Center and A+ from the ER to
the unit, the nurses to the doctors and everyone in between! Everyone was
incredible! I left with a new Psychiatrist, a med change that was already
starting to make me feel better, a better outlook, some goals, and a call in
for an appointment with a therapist. I was discharged on Christmas day and was
able to have the traditional Chinese dinner with my parents! Hey, that’s what us
Jews do on Christmas! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I will do one more post in the near future about how things
have been for me since being discharged from the hospital. I wrote so much
about this hospital stay down in a journal. It is way too much to share in a
blog post. Maybe one day, if I ever get around to writing a book, I’ll hopefully
be able to include much of it in my book!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Thank you for reading! Until next time…<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Sara Breidenstein</span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">Kissing Stigma Goodbye</span></b></div>
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-89191648627958102332014-01-02T22:44:00.002-05:002014-03-02T18:09:40.780-05:00My Recent Hospitalization (Part 2)<div class="MsoNormal">
After a long couple of months of a deteriorating mental
health status, of pure misery, of truly touch and go symptoms, feeling
completely out of control, and wanting to end my life so badly; I made the
decision to go to the hospital. I stopped denying the situation and blaming it
on life situations and took the first step in taking control of the situation.
The decision to go to the hospital followed weeks, maybe more, of absolute pain and suffering that no longer felt bearable. I
made the decision that I would go to the hospital on Thursday night, December
19, 2013. I had decided that I would go after the work holiday party scheduled
for the following day. I just had to get through a few hours of work and a few
hours of the holiday party Friday. <o:p></o:p></div>
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With tears in my eyes, I told my mom of my plans and told
her I would be going by myself and I would update her of the outcome. This
night, Thursday night was the first I was able to cry in a very long time and it felt good. After telling my mom of my plans, I did my laundry, I packed a bag, and I prepared myself as best as possible for
what would be. Mom took care of telling the rest of the family for me. As I
left for work the next day, I took my carefully (hospital approved) packed bag with me. I threw it
in my trunk to be forgotten about for the day but that turned out to be
impossible. Everything made me think of the fact that I would be taking myself to
the ER after work with hopes of being admitted, losing all independence for at
least a few days. I was concerned. I was concerned about almost everything. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">What
if they don’t hospitalize me? What if they just send me home? I’ll probably end
up harming myself! How much should I tell them in the ER? I don’t want to be
involuntarily placed in the hospital if they think I’m too much of a danger to
myself! What if the hospital is not a kind and warm place to be? What if I feel
like they’re not helping me? What if they don’t discharge me when I request it
and I’m stuck there? What if I’m not out in time to return to work on January 2<sup>nd</sup>?
What if I can’t have access to water all the time? I’m always thirsty! What if
they don’t give me Ibuprofen for my neck when I need it? What about tums? I’ve
got terrible acid reflux! Will they give me tums? How am I going to write? I
need a notebook without metal spirals </i>(Dad saved the day on this one)!<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> Will they let me have pens? What can I
have? What about my psoriasis? Will they allow me to have my cream for that? Can
they even help me? Maybe I’m too far gone! What can they do in a few days for
me? What if? What if? What if? <o:p></o:p></i></div>
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It was a night and day full of what ifs?!?! My brain just couldn’t
stop thinking of what could go wrong and start thinking of what could go right!
I pushed myself through work and through the holiday party. It wasn’t really
that hard to do because it was keeping my mind occupied. Partly through the
day, I sent a text to my mom “I don’t want to go to the hospital alone.” She
agreed to meet me at the hospital when she got off of work. I got out of the
holiday party around 3pm and headed over to Saint Joseph’s Medical Center
(SJMC). I sat in my car in the parking lot of the E.R. with about 45 minutes to
kill until my mom would arrive. That is when I wrote my thoughts and feelings
down to assist me with communicating effectively with the hospital staff. Some of
those thoughts and feelings I posted last night. When I completed that I just
enjoyed (or tried to enjoy) some music while waiting for my mom. I did not want
to go inside without her. Eventually, just before 4 p.m.,I went inside
because I had to go to the bathroom so badly. Mom arrived shortly after I
checked in and remained with me until I was transferred out of the ER.<o:p></o:p></div>
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They called me back to triage me after only a 10
minute wait in the waiting room. When I told them I was having suicidal thoughts, they quickly changed their minds about the normal triage process and took me back to a room immediately. Once in the room, there were 3 nurses surrounding me while I had to take my clothing
off and put on a hospital gown. One was taking my blood pressure, another
asking me questions, another preparing to take my blood. It was all incredibly
overwhelming. No surprise my blood pressure was sky high. Higher than it’s ever
been. Wouldn’t anyone’s be high with three nurses surrounding them like that?
When they all finally left my room, I sent one to get my mom out of the waiting
room. While they were getting her, the one nurse, who was set to be my nurse
for the remainder of the shift came in to talk to me about what brought me into
the hospital. She was incredibly kind and caring and didn’t once make me feel
any shame for being there. Instead, she made me feel comfortable being there
and as if I had made the correct decision in going. She told me she was sorry I
was feeling that way and she hoped I feel better. In fact, just about everyone
else I came into contact with in the ER made me feel that way. The nurses and
doctors in the ER were incredible! It was the complete opposite of some of my past experiences at.<o:p></o:p></div>
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First, I met with a medical doctor to receive medical clearance.
That happened pretty quickly. I’d say within an hour or so of arriving at the
ER. I met with the Social Worker pretty quickly as well. I then had to wait for
the Psychiatrist. Psychiatrists in the evening hours at the ER are more of an
on-call type position and I had arrived shortly after shift change (darn). Once
the Psychiatrist arrived she met with me pretty quickly and agreed that being
an admitted was the best thing for me at the time. I signed the voluntary
papers and she and the Social Worker began working on getting insurance
authorization and checking if a bed at Saint Joseph’s was available. I lucked
out, a bed upstairs (one floor up- directly above the ER) in the Psychiatric
Unit at SJMC was available and my insurance authorized me to stay. I was however, worried that I wouldn’t receive enough treatment. The Social Worker in
the ER told me I was only authorized through Monday December 23<sup>rd</sup>.
My mom and I were worried that I would basically just be in the hospital over the
weekend and weren’t sure how effective that would be for me. Would I even see a
doctor? A Social Worker? Would they help me find a new doctor? A therapist? I
was worried! I was stressing a lot about the Monday timeline! Once I got on the
unit and spoke to my doctor it became more apparent that they would obtain an
extended authorization as needed and they did just that. My authorization was
extended until Thursday December 26<sup>th</sup>. <o:p></o:p></div>
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After talking to the Psychiatrist, finding out there was a
bed on One West (the Psychiatric unit), and finding out my insurance authorized
the stay it was just a matter of the nurse calling to One West and letting them
know I was ready to be transferred up there. Unfortunately, just as this
happened, my nurse was called to an emergency which took quite some time. I was
stuck in the ER waiting for a bit longer. It took about an hour and a half to
two hours from the insurance authorization to my transfer upstairs. I still
thought the timing was quite good. I arrived at the ER around 4 pm and was
transferred to the Psych unit just after 11 pm. The last time I was
hospitalized, I sat at GBMC for about 16 hours with a bed awaiting me at
Sheppard Pratt while all I was waiting on was medical clearance. 7 hours seemed great to me!
Everyone in the ER was truly incredible and caring. It was a very positive ER
experience. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Once I got on the unit, they went through my stuff and took
a few items I couldn’t have; I did a pretty good job of packing to psych hospital standards. They then did my intake, gave me my medication, showed
me my room and I was out like a light! I was woken up bright and early for a
blood draw and then my vitals. I saw a Psychiatrist first thing Saturday
morning, which eased my stress a lot! <o:p></o:p></div>
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More to come on my
actual stay on the unit! <o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Thanks for reading! Until next time…<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Sara Breidenstein<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6515645868256660050.post-45884222948636159022014-01-01T22:20:00.000-05:002014-03-01T16:19:03.144-05:00My Recent Hospitalization (Part 1)<div class="MsoNormal">
This will be my first in a series of posts about my recent
hospital visit. I will start with what led me to the visit. The ultimate decider
in going to the E.R. was my suicidal ideations. I was very focused on the idea
of no longer wanting to live. Every night I hoped I wouldn’t wake up. I would
stare at my bottle of lithium thinking about just taking the entire bottle so I
would not have to wake come tomorrow. I attempted suicide 6 ½ years ago at a
time in which I was feeling much like I was feeling prior to going to the
hospital. I was in a mixed state. A mixed state is when someone has feelings of
both depression and mania at the same time. It is a very dangerous place to be
when you’re having suicidal thoughts. When someone is depressed the suicidal
thoughts may be present but the energy and motivation is often times lacking.
When someone is in a mixed state the suicidal thoughts are present and so is
the energy to act on those thoughts. This therefore makes mixed states the most
dangerous state for an individual with Bipolar.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The suicidal desires are what brought me to the hospital but
they were only one part of the problem. There were many other symptoms present
that I had been fighting and denying for a long time. I was in a full-blown
mixed state and was feeling entirely out of control. My symptoms started months
ago. I honestly can’t think back to exactly when. However, they worsened with
my recent discontinuation of Lamictal. I wasn’t aware of their worsening. In fact,
I thought I was doing just fine. I blamed everything I was going through on subpar
life situations. I had even become very resentful towards friends and family
for they had what I could never seem to obtain but wanted so badly. Finally, I
lost it one too many times and realized that I couldn’t go on like this
anymore. There are many occasions in which I am amazed that I didn’t do
something to take my life. I always thought about not wanting to hurt my family
in these cases and it was the only thing keeping me alive. I felt so out of
control and I knew I needed help. The night before I went to the hospital, I
decided I would go to the ER after work the following day. I told my family of
my plan, I packed a bag, and I prepared myself for the hospital. It was such a
hard decision to make, to give up all control and trust to a locked facility.
It ended up being a very good decision (which I will talk about more in days to
come). The piece I wrote two nights before going to the hospital really allowed
me to begin to externalize how I was feeling. I had been internalizing for so
long and writing this piece gave me the insight I needed to realize how bad off
I really was. The link to that piece is here: <a href="http://nodifferentthanyou.blogspot.com/2013/12/tomorrow-is-new-day.html" target="_blank">Tomorrow Is a New Day</a><o:p></o:p></div>
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To give you a small taste of where my mind was at, I am
going to share some of the things I wrote down in a notebook prior to going to
the hospital, both the night before and the day of. The things I wrote the day
of, I wrote down to help me better express to the doctors and nurses at the
hospital how I was feeling because I don’t do well at verbally expressing
myself. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I jotted this down the night before I went to the hospital. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I
can’t go to the hospital. What about my dog? He’ll really miss me while I’m
gone. If I don’t go to the hospital I may kill myself. I probably will. What
about Caesar? He’ll be really sad! Mom and Dad will take care of him but he’ll
never be the same. Too bad I didn’t succeed 6 years ago. What if I don’t
succeed again? What if I end up a vegetable? Will they pull the cord? I hope
so. Poor Caesar. This isn’t fair to him. My parents will be better off without
me. No matter what they say; I just complicate their lives. They should have
made me happy. They made my sister happy. Why didn’t they make me happy?<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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I jotted the following down shortly before walking into the
ER while I was sitting in my car outside of the hospital preparing my thoughts.
This was immediately after my company holiday party, which I attended and put
on a happy face at. I did not share that I was going to the ER for suicidal
thoughts right after with anyone but one person. I pushed myself through work
until my 12 days off. After all, work was the only thing at the time that
actually made me feel good!<o:p></o:p></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I
can’t find the worth in my life. I know it doesn’t exist. Everyone tells me
there’s worth in every life but I don’t believe them. There’s not worth in
mine. Every single day I want to die. I hope that I won’t wake up in the
morning. I feel hopeless. I feel desperate to end the misery. I can’t see a
positive future. I can’t see any other way than death for the misery to end but
I don’t want to hurt my family. I just want to be happy but it seems
impossible. It’s not fair. Why should I have to live in such misery? I resent
my family, friends, and coworkers who seem to have everything I’m missing. I
don’t know when I’ll just lose it and harm myself with plans to end it all.
It’s nearing closer and closer and I don’t trust myself after my impulsive
overdose 6 years ago when I felt similar. The littlest things in conversations
will set my brain off. I need help fast!<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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I also jotted down a list of some sort related to my
thoughts and feelings:<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Alone<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The desire
to no longer live<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Trouble sleeping<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Racing
thoughts at times<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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speech at times<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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resent towards family and friends<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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problems<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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I feel hypomanic symptoms and sometimes depressed symptoms and sometimes both
all at once<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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This is a small peak into where my mind was at prior to my
hospitalization. I thought sharing some of what I jotted down could be useful
as it is raw, straight from my brain to the paper, a real look at what was
going on in my brain and why I went to the hospital. I will follow this up in a
day or so with my experiences in the hospital, staring in the E.R. and all the
way until discharge<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Thank you for reading! Until next time…<o:p></o:p></b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Sara Breidenstein<o:p></o:p></b></span></span></div>
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